if I only had a brain.

One of my favorite things about this blog is the fact that I have the freedom to say whatever I want. It is the most perfect form of an outlet. At first I felt uncomfortable with the fact that there was nowhere to hide. But  honestly, that is the greatest thing about writing. It's raw. Words are thoughts. Thoughts are feelings. Everything you read on this page is a direct string plucked from my very being. I keep the style casual because my readers are my friends and that is what I do here, talk to my friends. Sometimes the things I have to say show vulnerability and my callous nature; I don't hide behind anonymity. You all know who it is that is speaking to you through these poorly punctuated sentences..me. My face is right at the top of the page for lord's sake.

I love hearing from you guys. The texts, emails, and comments I receive mean so much to me because it fills my heart knowing that I am helping someone feel a little less alone. Of course, where there is love for me..there is also hate for me. I actually don't mind, I still love those of you who disagree with me and let me know. I have had several conversations with people over disagreements with the things I say here. But every time I feel we both walk away with a little bit of understanding for the others' views. I love that. That my friends, is called a grown up conversation.

With that being said, don't leave hacked up, hateful, anonymous comments to me. If you want to remain unnamed because you don't want your ex to read that you too, are still in love with them, that is completely fine. I am the one who chooses for my name to be on this page, you don't have to. Though, if you are hiding behind a computer screen to sling insults and half witted comments, take that bologna to MySpace. This is an outlet. A place for others and myself to express thoughts and feelings in order to gain emotional freedom and insight; not to be judged and told their feelings are wrong. If you want to let me know on my last post that no one will ever love me while I am still sucking all my exes, that is fine. But have the figurative balls to put a name to it. I will gladly publish it.